Bindi– an Identity

Often, I receive questions from non-Indians about the significance of bindis in various contexts, and they generally respect my appearance & choices. However, some NRI Hindus branded me “outdated” for my choices. It’s important to note that within India, an increasing number of women are choosing not to wear a bindi, which reflects a personal choice. Many of these women may still use other forms of makeup while consciously opting to forgo the bindi, showcasing a broader spectrum of individual expression. Many of my non-Hindu friends, including Muslims, Christians, and those who belong to other faiths or are atheists, sport bindis on many occasions– it’s their choice.

#lenskart went a step too far and banned the bindi/tilak —where? — in India itself.

 I have a few friends who are Hindus and name Hindus “Dirty Hindus”. 

They are quiet- not a surprise– we are dirty Hindus, and that’s fine.

Certain newspapers are always eager to highlight any communal issues in India on the world stage. They too ignore this– enjoying quietly, I believe.

A country that assimilates and celebrates more than 7 religions with over 5000 years of recorded history will have issues just like in a large, diverse family.

Nonetheless, members of the Hindu community, who find pride in their identity, will persist in advocating for their beliefs and fostering respect across all religions. The bindi represents an important aspect of religious identity, and those who uphold this tradition are committed to defending it.

#banlenskart #banpeyushbansal 

Bindi is my identity, and people like me who own it will fight for it.

Those who are human always fight for human rights; not all are #socialmediaheroes, but #realheroes, irrespective of their religion.

Banning any tradition that doesn’t pose a threat is an attempt to bring in communal conflict, to say the least.

Happy Dussehra

Over Dussehra, when we celebrate women’s power, let’s remind ourselves that the true strength from within shines. May we all be blessed by the Goddesses of Wealth, Knowledge & Power. The women power/ Shakthi one prays inside his/her four walls be extended to each and every woman one encounters in real life too. May we choose the apt deeds, and may we all be victorious!


Say no to plastics and silicone in the body
Say no to applying chemicals to the body
Say no to pleasing people with the looks

Let’s focus more on the inner power. I’m grateful I’m surrounded by many like-minded girls. But, we need to spread the thought more and stick firmly to our beliefs.

Sharing my BIL Kameswara Rao Bhiravabhatla’s Telugu poetic touch to this powerful message found on WA- “This Navaratri, let’s pray that no Durga is aborted, no Saraswati is stopped from going to school, no Lakshmi has to beg for money from husband, no Parvati is sacrificed for dowry, no Sita has to suffer in silence, and no Kali is given a tube of fairness cream”!’

ఏనాడు ప్రతి లక్ష్మి ఎవరినీ చెయిసాచ

కార్థిక స్వాతంత్య్ర మనుభవించు

ఏనాడు ప్రతి వాణి ఏ ఆంక్షలును లేక

కోరిన విద్యల కూర్మి నేర్చు

ఏనాడు ఏ సతీ ఇంటి వేధింపుల

కాహుతి కాక స్థైర్యమున నిలుచు

ఏనాడు ఏ దుర్గ భ్రూణహత్యకు గురి

కాకుండ జగతిపై కాలుమోపు

ఎపుడు ఏ కాళి చేతికి ఇవ్వరెవరు

పూసుకొమ్మని ఫేర్నెస్సు ఫేసుక్రీము

మంచి చెడుపైన అపుడు సాధించు జయము

నిజముగా అప్పుడే వచ్చు విజయదశమి!

అందరికీ విజయదశమి శుభాకాంక్షలు!!

Let the light from within glow with confidence

#navratri #dasara #vijayadasami

Fortune Favours the Brave!

When you cannot go to the pool for a swim, please bring it to your bathroom for a shower.

What a crazy time it has been for Texans!

Lucky we survived it all and be glad that we all learnt more survival skills and exciting tales to reminisce and share. We stuck to our house the entire time. Our house went to as low as -2C, and thanks to Texas Gas service for keeping us alive. Not to underestimate the power of prayers by friends and family that spread the ‘warm’th! In my neighbourgood, at one point only three households had people in them, the rest made it safely (❤) to safe zones! Frozen pool, the possibility of leaking pipes, and having our own shelter above us made us stick here and made it. For about one week with freezing temperatures, we had electricity for about 10 hours until it was restored when the energy company felt we deserve some despite having any ‘critical’ units around us! We are grateful for all your messages, care, and concern that made us feel that we have our backs covered. Have to thank some extraordinary people who shared some boiled water, water cartons, and firewood with us despite being in the same boat. (Sam, Ida, and Aroona ❤) And, to Michael for his guidance wrt our frozen pool. To my CEO for referring hotels to us, Bala’s company and HR are even willing to get us a truck to put us at safety. God’s grace, we didn’t need it all. We struggled and suffered but in a much better position than those who couldn’t relocate and did not have gas service! 

Overall, ‘survival of the fittest and ‘struggle for existence” put to the test and proven!

Here’s our story covered by Decibel, Austin’s Locally Produced Resource for News and Events Presented by Austin PBS, KLRU-TV:

https://decibelatx.org/science-and-technology/a-year-round-problem-winter-storm-outages-underscore-power-issues-for-one/

The Sunrise!

Smashing the obscure thoughts,

Solacing the bustling hearts,

Through the quietude of the Full Moon,

There appeared this glimmer of Hope.

The Sun beamed down, waking the long awake yet forgotten dreams.

Reposed reveries bounce back- Nothing more invigorating than this sunshine that’s flashing through this window!

A happy 2021!

The fights they fought, the paths they laid

It’s heartwarming to be able to honour labour day in the heart of a capitalist country. We can find lots of literature on the origin and why it’s not on May 1st here. But, the minimum wage policy, minimum hours of work per day, maternity & paternity leaves, the dignity of labour, were something I have experienced while in the UK, and I still can hear them here. Though the terms are not the same in the US, to commemorate a day for workers strengthens me. As Shakespeare says, “a rose by any other name would smell as sweet”!

I bow to the great souls behind the mass movements, the strikes, the sacrifices that they made, and the fights they fought to change our fate for good. Let’s not touch the subject of equal pay for both genders now.

Yes, based on the duration women work while pregnant, they can earn up to nine months of maternity leave, and a six-week paid holiday is a common norm in the UK. Now don’t let that smile fade away if you are in that part of the world.

Though born in a country where ‘dignity of labour’ is just a decorative phrase, I am fortunate enough to be nurtured by parents who have always kept their housemaids close to their hearts and treated them with warmth. I respect people based on the values they share than the degrees they hold.

Though labour day has become synonymous with consumerism (thanks to labour day sales), let’s remind ourselves of its origin, be it Mayday or the first Monday in September. Let’s grab a chance to think of those tireless labour who work in mines, roads, or deserts under the scorching sun, who go fishing in tornadoes, and those who work in the snow. Let’s thank our mail carriers, let’s honour those ground workers who make this world a cleaner and safer place.