DO We Need Women’s Day!

I didn’t know Women’s Day existed until I left college.

{There was no need for it when you were raised with pride by parents, teachers, and influential personalities. But when you take a global perspective, you need people who lift women – they won’t always be women.) Dedicating one day might not solve any deep-rooted issues. However, many inspiring women have been part of our school curriculum and our lifestyles. In the wake of upheaval in Bangladesh politics, I travelled through the timeline of world politics, and South Asia has been inspirational.

Such political figures who stood tall are:

Sirimavo Bandaranaike, Margaret Thatcher (though not from South Asia), Indira Gandhi, Benazir Bhutto, and Sheikh Hasina.

Ms Bandaranaike: The world’s first female Prime Minister, taking office in (now) Sri Lanka.

Ms. Thatcher’s powerful phrase, “the lady’s not for turning.” This statement still evokes the same excitement.

Ms Gandhi: Commanding a vast, diverse nation through war, economic upheaval, and state emergencies.

Ms Butto: Came to be regarded as an icon for women’s rights due to her political success in a male-dominated society.

Ms. Hasina: Striving to lift her nation out of poverty and political instability through sustained development.

I’m not a politician, and I’m not here to dissect their political decisions or careers.

However, it’s disheartening to see the final wicket (about to) fall in Bangladesh.

I take a bow, ladies! Living in the same era is a blessing.

After this inspiring pep-visit, let’s rethink, do we need a Women’s Day?

Yes, despite those pockets of women’s growth in places, can you believe there are phone numbers for women to call if in an abusive situation in the bathrooms of a maternity ward in one of the most advanced nations in the West?

Not just culturally, but women need that support from the more equal men to show their mettle. Women don’t always lift women. Can we guarantee that, within a family, daughters and daughters-in-law are treated equally? So, it should be the responsibility of every human to treat everyone with respect and equality.

Women are still forced to have make-up outside and silicone/plastic inside- no one is forcing them perse, but that’s the mindset we are moving into. Women are judged on the careers they are in by their own women circles, groups, and treatment is not the same among women. Where are we heading?

Not one day, but every day, yes- the women I mentioned above are from influential families, and more women fought their way through from nothing- they are an inspiration; there is still hope.

Kudos to men who think and act like humans should. Until then, Women’s Day is just one day of celebration that helps the retail sector generate more sales: events for women, selling flowers at triple the price, and cards for that genre. And roll on until the next year.

Happy Women’s Day.

Dreams and Destiny

Unlearning the learning, I’m trying to redefine what success could mean to me. Maybe this could give solace to my lifelong ambition followed by a beatdown feeling of being unable to study medicine, or should I say missing it by a whisker that made it an even worse episode that aghast my life?

My husband did offer me the chance to pursue that line of education even now, being a mother, which I don’t think is the right time- but to my utter surprise and divine intervention, I happened to chat with my favourite Botany teacher, Kumar Raja, sir, who taught me botany for over five years and mentored me the whole time, shared the fact that he and his family expected I would come round holding a stethoscope and emerge as a fabulous doctor. He was shocked to hear otherwise and offered to train me NOW- even after two decades; he has the confidence that I could do it– That confidence my teacher had in me makes me feel content, and all those tears that recently have been hiding have flown, releasing me of this defeated attitude that I assumed I could never overcome.

That’s destiny. Failures don’t always depict a lack of sincere attempt but may result from destiny. This failure taught me perseverance, to understand human behaviour, and that life is not a bed of roses– everything always comes with a fight to me- I’m a proud fighter.

 At this juncture, I have to take a moment to express my gratitude for the stature of our Kumar Raja sir, who hailed from a middle-class family and offered free tuition to aspiring students and, at times, his family sharing some delicacies they cooked with all the students. This was when education had become a complete business product in India. Watching a mentor be so full of morals and ethics has imprinted the same values in me. My parents offered free meals to students who couldn’t afford two meals a day, but that was when human values and empathy were still at their peak. Again, taking me by surprise, my parents still offer the same for students in need to date. I consider the age I grew up as golden- a true amalgamation of rich family & cultural values and those baby steps toward the e-world.

Those who know me as a teenager remember me as a sole fighter who sincerely tried to clear one entrance test that could have blessed me with stepping foot in the college of my dreams – Andhra Medical College. This college is not far- 50 km away from my parents and the place I travelled to every day for my master’s internship or to visit friends and relatives even now. But, to date, never could I embrace the ambience of the prestigious medical college, which produced wonderful doctors who are saving lives day in and out all over the world. 

Foolish, I was not to accept other branches of medicine on other campuses but kept my vain eye on medicine at AMC. Or that was the fate, and I had to accept it unwillingly.

Unwavering support from my parents and family rebuilt me. They were never disappointed or expressed displeasure with my choices. But they accepted me as I am. Many insults came in the face of revenge from unknowns, but those silent hearts in the form of friends and acquaintances that prayed for my success, whether I knew them or not, is what I have achieved in my life- That’s my life summed up. 

I wouldn’t have known the beauty of life and struggles had my plate been full of what I wished for. I have learnt to appreciate life for what it is, not for what I aspired of it. 

Diwali Tribute-2023

Diwali/Deepawali, the festival of lights, brings many fond memories.

During my entire childhood, we spent a week ahead making our own crackers, mixing aluminium and sulphur in the right amounts under my granddad’s supervision, and testers were the fun part. Only memories captured in my heart.

Our Engish friends embraced us and our culture, whether in Sheffield or Manchester. After that, the most memorable was at Cambridge with our favourite people, where the entire village was part of the celebrations. The fun fact was that we are almost the only Indian family, and we felt celebrated.

Jake’s (now a teenager) photo stole my heart, making a diya as part of school learning. 

I received the painting from an ex-colleague, Shahid, whose daughter, Umaima, made this wonderful Diwali card for her teacher.

These are endearing to me as this is a collage from families of different faiths. Love and inclusiveness bind us.

Of course, this is a time to reflect on my friends who showered their love and prayers on Hamsi and us when we needed the most during this time a few years ago. 

Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for your unconditional love always who gave and continues to give us wonderful memories. I also take pride in mooting having Diwali lunch at our local schools, and it has become a tradition every year now, with more volunteers taking the baton with passion and fervour. A huge thanks to my office and management for letting me extend my Diwali celebrations to my workplace.

What is Social Media Marketing?

You are busy capturing moments from various events as part of your company’s digital marketing strategy, and do you start hearing these?

“Hey, you were the event photographer last week, weren’t you?”

“All you do is post photos? Easy job”.

Do these sound familiar to you? Or, you, as a marketer, assume, “I have taken photos of the event; let me post them on our social media platforms. Then, that’s my  job done.”?

Let me tell you–capturing, documenting, and publishing photos or videos from one event is not social media marketing. Of course, you are allowed to have these illusions as a viewer. But if you adhere to this principle as a marketer, stop what you’re doing now! Take a deep breath and understand the purpose of social media marketing. It may be anything, but it will not be inundating your business page with photos because you have them.

Keep apart the Likes we gain from “family and friends”.

What makes a stranger Like a business? Or even break it down, WHY does one Like an ad or any update on a business page? It’s the purpose or objective behind the update, isn’t it? With putting yourself at the mercy of a prospect’s fingertip, your sole idea should be demand generation. Then, as a marketer, you need to look at the content that piques your audience’s interest, making them like the update; you tend to look into HOW a viewer would pause that scrolling and be part of it or purchase it. This process leads to the bigger picture of drawing the prospect to the website- your mission and vision- the WHAT part of the business. So, an update should have the AIDA model imbibed into it.

The standard age-old rule of marketing principle which still holds good is the AIDA model: Awareness–Interest–Desire–Action.

Of course, the Action could be direct sales, filling a form, or website visits. So, does your update have a clear CTA- Call to Action? In a nutshell, your social media marketer should be creative and align the updates with the vision of your business. But a marketer’s job doesn’t end here. Once a customer is willing to be part of this business with the Awareness paving way to creating Interest, your targeting techniques should make the prospect understand the gap that your product could close with a  Desire that results in an Action/Purchase.

Strategic digital marketing techniques imbibe and help in pivoting Relationship marketing manifold. Another facet of digital marketing is email marketing, which, done with attention to detail, helps gain repeat customers. Social media marketing helps reach customers’ networks or create lookalikes for you to target. Now know that social media will start reaching out to people with similar interests or demographics. Your efforts will help your money go further, with your customer becoming advocates for your company.  How fabulous! So, ensure your advertising tactics make your customers feel a sense of pride in introducing this business to their contacts. As a marketer, it is your responsibility not to let them down. Your updates should have a meaningful purpose paving the way for delightful purchases and after-sales experiences. 

How do you build a lifetime relationship with a customer, and how can you still interest the existing customer to follow you and make them repeat? Not by filling your page with photographs because you have them. Post with a purpose.

Every post should address a viewer’s pain point or create a genuine interest in the update. Any social media update should be about customers’ needs, NOT what we sell or have to offer. It’s not about your business; it’s keeping a customer’s needs and wants as the point of engagement. Your updates should create a demand.

Now, bring your WHO-HOW-WHAT into a more profound understanding.

This Golden Circle Theory proposed by Simon Sinek has yielded excellent results. 
Hear it straight from the horse’s mouth in detail:
https://simonsinek.com/golden-circle/

Social media marketing is not to show your graphic,  editing, or photographic skills. The sole purpose is to address a customer’s pain point, respect their choices and adhere to their anticipation about what they may like about your business. Remember, it only takes a fraction of a second to unlike or unfollow the business page, but to make them hit that Like initially may have taken days, if not months. 

Also, different social media platforms have different needs- images, videos, text, or ideas. Once you plan your content, put relevant text, photos, and video content based on this principle that suits your business’s platform. Not to forget the #hashtags. The research that one puts in using the right hashtags gets more bang for your buck. Note that not all platforms are suitable for your business; don’t be eager to be on them all. Make sure you will have the content for regular postings.

 One needs to have analytical skills to design marketing strategies. Every social media platform provides marketers with analytics that help them better understand customer demographics and provides data with deeper insights into our business prospects. A seasoned strategist allows businesses to study emerging platforms’ demographics and suitability for their companies. 

Social media marketing is a good mixture of science, art, and psychology. It is the foundation for a successful business. But, it demands patience and vision. It’s more than being a photographer. 

Social Media Marketing is the heart of the modern business.

To me personally, deploying these techniques over time resulted in more page likes and follows consistently:

One example of steady, consistent Facebook marketing

An efficient social media marketer must have a calendar and a plan with updates that suit the business and customer needs. The effort should close the gap between a prospect and the company. 

Social media marketing offers marketers tools to analyse, evaluate and improve. Social media platforms are growing, providing businesses with various platforms and ever-changing algorithms by Google, etc. An efficient (digital) marketing specialist helps harness analytics and target the organically and paid market segment in the best way that suits your business. 

Happy Socia Media Marketing. 

Happy Dussehra

Over Dussehra, when we celebrate women’s power, let’s remind ourselves that the true strength from within shines. May we all be blessed by the Goddesses of Wealth, Knowledge & Power. The women power/ Shakthi one prays inside his/her four walls be extended to each and every woman one encounters in real life too. May we choose the apt deeds, and may we all be victorious!


Say no to plastics and silicone in the body
Say no to applying chemicals to the body
Say no to pleasing people with the looks

Let’s focus more on the inner power. I’m grateful I’m surrounded by many like-minded girls. But, we need to spread the thought more and stick firmly to our beliefs.

Sharing my BIL Kameswara Rao Bhiravabhatla’s Telugu poetic touch to this powerful message found on WA- “This Navaratri, let’s pray that no Durga is aborted, no Saraswati is stopped from going to school, no Lakshmi has to beg for money from husband, no Parvati is sacrificed for dowry, no Sita has to suffer in silence, and no Kali is given a tube of fairness cream”!’

ఏనాడు ప్రతి లక్ష్మి ఎవరినీ చెయిసాచ

కార్థిక స్వాతంత్య్ర మనుభవించు

ఏనాడు ప్రతి వాణి ఏ ఆంక్షలును లేక

కోరిన విద్యల కూర్మి నేర్చు

ఏనాడు ఏ సతీ ఇంటి వేధింపుల

కాహుతి కాక స్థైర్యమున నిలుచు

ఏనాడు ఏ దుర్గ భ్రూణహత్యకు గురి

కాకుండ జగతిపై కాలుమోపు

ఎపుడు ఏ కాళి చేతికి ఇవ్వరెవరు

పూసుకొమ్మని ఫేర్నెస్సు ఫేసుక్రీము

మంచి చెడుపైన అపుడు సాధించు జయము

నిజముగా అప్పుడే వచ్చు విజయదశమి!

అందరికీ విజయదశమి శుభాకాంక్షలు!!

Let the light from within glow with confidence

#navratri #dasara #vijayadasami